I’m often asked of all the relationship books I’ve read, which one I would recommend the most. As with any recommendation, a good answer takes into account the person that’s asking – their tastes, their learning style, and where they’re at in their relational journey. So while I can’t identify the one best book for everyone, below are some of my favorites.

The 80/80 marriage authors maintain an up-to-date list of resources here, which includes a high-level summary and a key takeaway from each book.

Reading these books – or even better, forming a book club with your partner to read and discuss them! – is a great way to improve your relational health.